If you see Nessus in synastry, make sure you know which side of the fence he is on. Is there a positive aspect to this connection? I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. Moon/Pluto as a conjunction is not dark , per se. Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. To make it simple for those of you who are on the same path, Ive rounded up the top 5 placements that indicate a past life marriage. In the conjunction, the planets are next to each other( or on top of each other in the exact conjunction). Hats off to your courage. Who does whom, so to speak? Venus conj Chirondoes love seem to bring pain? I've found that the Eros person has a "crush" on the planet person. His Nessus makes no major aspect to my planets, except a 3 orb trine to my Mercury and North Node, and Vertex..could this mean well step on each others toes when it comes to reaching our goals? In other words, if a mans Nessus conjuncts your ASC, he will abuse you, in my opinion. . In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring . Who would bring who abuse? . I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. Eros and Psyche were mythical lovers, and were brought together by fate. Thank you for your words. I seemed to be destined to study and use Nessus and Deja. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. Thank you for your response, I appreciate it very much. The chart never lies, my Friend. I know how important moon moon aspects are to you, Venus pluto aspects I have looked at them unto themselves but everything matters so I will start to incorporate signs and houses. If someone does not want to accept the truth, that is their choice, but I, personally, will not do their chart. Planets and asteroids will be modified when they aspect each other, this the possibilities are endless. I was wondering how much weight can have the orbit in a synastry.. for example, I have with a guy a Venus trine Pluto, but 5.46 orbit.. does it counts? Ive never seen the Descendant explained so clearly or succinctly before. I have my nessus conjunct with my true node. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. Saturn conj Mars in Scorpio could produce a kinky kind of thing. The Sun person naturally understands who the Moon person is and vice versa. Your articles hit me hard again:-). Hi Ami. However, if you have Nessus/Dejanira and Mars/Uranus, particularly in hard aspect( opposition and square), it may make for dark spice, shall we say. This is not dark sexual, per se. It was a relationship based on dates and romance instead of the realities of life. I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. Eros and Sun in Synastry! (Conjunction, Opposition, Trine, Sextile Thats your opinion. Eros conjunction sun and lucky point.. and mercury, uranus, pluto and venus in house seven, libra. Eros and Venus in a synastry chart! Conjunction - YouTube His moon also conjunct my IC, orb 1. Your email address will not be published. This only works with a synastry chart, and (as always) is simply my own opinion! Lilith Synastry - A Complete Guide To Lilith Synastry 2023 - Cosmic Deity Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. To learn more about the past life, look at the aspect, the houses in which the planets sit, and the signs. Nessus is the abusers asteroid. Lilith, both Black Moon and Asteroid 1181, brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger, rejection and rage. As one of the four largest asteroids (along with Vesta, Pallas, and Juno), Ceres is usually analyzed in the birth chart. At the end of the day, that is all this god and goddess really ask for.". What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? What does Nessus and Dejanira mean when conjuncting each other? Have you tried? and DW : womans Nessus (13 Gemini) opposite mans Juno ( 12 Sag). The Top 5 Past Life Marriage Indicators In the Birth Chart: Karmic I do charts for the people who want them. This is my opinion and other people may differ but I call things as I see them, Mandy dear. I know somebody whose Moon conjuncts his Dejanira (30 minutes). If other aspects and planets in the chart point to marriage, then it was probably a romantic, attractive marriage where the couple did not see each other all day, did not share a bedroom, had a large household staff, lived apart, etc. The Basic House Rulers23 Simple Steps for Beginners. Eros/Pluto/Lilith together makes for one powerful combination. If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. It is opinion, not truth. Thats not the truth. The fear can totally destroy someone over something that they read as if its fact. As I see more pieces, I think my awareness shifts, and I do feel like that makes a difference. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. It seems like the man of your childhood dreams walked out of the ether into your life like the larger than life heroes on the movie screens. Posts: 9778 From: Death Star . Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. Ascendant opposite ascendant (1st house on the 7th house overlay). I guess I was just worried in general, just in case :P. how about deja conjuct saturn 1 degree. I had waaaaay more rage than he did (granted, there were reasons for that) and said things so hurtful that I wince now when I think about them. I know my life, and what manifests in it. Uranus/Mars in synastry can be kinky. That is most certainly not the truth. Asteroids and aspects do not control people. Ami is an insightful astrology. And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. 10. I'm still not even sure if Eros/Lilith contacts are positive or negative? M. What are the exact Sun/pluto aspects Maria? But, I will take sides with Sydney on this issue. You made my day, Juice and Welcome! Does this mean anything? Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. He may abuse her and it would be seen publicly. Thats like saying everyone with their own natal mars square pluto aspect makes them destined to be molested. Oh dear, I am soooooo freaked out!!!!!!! People tell me the same thing they tell me with Nessus. In my opinion, it will play out. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. I have my dejanira conjuct by one degree with my AC line. Moon conjunct Lilith EXACT Moon conjunct Destinn EXACT Venus square Mars EXACT There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. I've never had a more natural and effortless sexual connection to someone in my life, and it blinded me to a lot of things. A conjunction is the strongest, but most aspects indicate some type of marriage. Can you relate to it or are just worried in general lol. It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. What significance would you place on someones Juno conjunct my vertex, south node as well as very-widely conjunct my sun (same sign). Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. would you please shed some light as you see fit? The puzzle pieces are coming together for me.. finally. Hey there! Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. Groom conjunct the Vertex. It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. I would have to see the rest of the chart to tell more though, my Friend. Please, keep giving your opinion. I had a very intense, psychically damaging and life changing relationship with a man whose Eros was directly conjunct my Lilith, and also more loosely conjunct my Neptune & Descendant. 1) Planetary house overlays (1, 5, 7, 8, 9 = most important) 2) Planetary aspects. I always seem to have the opinion that these people are somewhat evil yet gullible and innocent and therefore they deserve to be abused. thank you again for being so welcoming, Thank you so much, Sovietlana! They may cause each other significant pain and strife, but God help any outsider who dares to point it out. Sorry if this came off mean, I just dont want people to get scared over having one aspect when astrological interpretations are not set in stone. Drawing that authoritarian feminine energy into the already present power themes must have been really overwhelming, just flooding in from every corner. Yeah, the They may not be able to see what you are up and you could use this for your gain fits perfectly. My main point is reflection. IF the chart does not seem right, then I think the time of birth is off. For more context, Nessus/BML dont aspect anything else except a grand trine with Mercury/MC and Jupiter. Telling people that something will happen to them because of an aspect is what you in particular FEEL is going to happen, but that is not the truth. (double-whammy..) No worries. His Pluto sextile my moon, His Jupiter conjunct my moon and his Neptune conjunct my moon, also his mars opposite my venus, is that conducive to passion and helping me release my cancer 8th house sun conjunct north node repressesion? I really have not looked at these aspects in signs, though. Things were so passionate that we were bankrupting ourselves on planet tickets, so after a whirlwind 4 month courtship I quit my job and moved in with him- on the other side of the country. What I've read about Lilith makes it seem to me that she's sort of like the Feminine's Pluto with lots of primal sexual urges thrown in, so I'm sure she rooted herself comfortably into your already heavily Plutonic relationships. Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. What about my nessus conjunct his descendant? Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. Eros Synastry Aspects: The asteroid, Eros, represents erotic love, sex, passion and intimacy. 4) Conjunctions to the Axis/Angles = very strong bond. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. Any other aspect will show a wound through marriage, but the marriage wasnt necessarily involving both parties together. It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. 3) Angles in the houses & aspects. To summarize, I would say that Mars/Pluto could be passionate sex and passionate emotions but no soul.If a chart had no Moon aspects and Mars/Pluto aspects, I would say it would be a fling. I agree with Sydney. With asteroids, one must be an intrepid explorer because there is precious little PRACTICAL info out there. Eros in Synastry seems appropriate to discuss for this time of year. Eros and Venus in a synastry chart! There is also a near-exact conjunction of his north node to my Eros. There is the potential to take things to another realm when the aspects are favorable. This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. The asteroid Eros plays a role in sexual attraction as well. She is raw sexuality which will not be dark if it touches Venus imo and Welcome , what if I have my Lilith conjunct his juno and his venus. Past Life Indicators in Synastry and Karmic Relationships - Astrology They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. They made my day, Jeanie. You lose about 25% but still have about 75%. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? Youll have to use your judgement here. Moon conjunct Pluto is the strongest of the Moon/Pluto aspects because the conjunction trumps any other aspect in strength. My guess is that it would be an obsessive relationship where both would try to hurt each other? Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. Eros & Psyche in. I dont do the Draconic. His 8th house Nessus is conjunct my 7th house Dejanira (2s), opposite my moon (-1s) and square my mercury (2a). I could not really answer this question without seeing the whole chart. I would say no, but I am not the last word in anything. His dejanira is conjunct with my sun. Amazing emotional+sexual chemistry though there was some bumps in the way. It is a pleasure to be here. Posts: 376From: Western Massachusetts, USRegistered: May 2009. Any comments will help. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. Why dont you put up your chart in my Forum and ask your question again. Ten Conjunctions to the Vertex in Synastry - My Christian Psychic Thanks :), When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. Eros Synastry: The Nodes and Major Angles of Your Chart (Conjunctions Moon conjunct pluto Im composite and moon in 12th house composite (our feelings were a secret for a long time as we didnt know how we felt and were not able to be together for a long time). 1) What would it mean when my nessus conjuncts his nessus? I dont want to assume that having Nessus conj BML means Im going to be abusive in sexual relationships. Your Eros Sign Can Explain Your Weird Turn-Ons & Secret Sexual Desires If you do this, Astrology will serve its purpose, which is to warn and alert people to possible problems and even dangers. Did you know I had one? Things dont come out until marriage, sometimes. I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. So the theory doesnt check out. This relationship can be really passionate, fiery, and exciting. Next, I have uncovered that in my Draconic Dejanira is 1 degree conjunct my natal Scorpio Moon. You are so welcome, Britt and thanks so much for telling me that you like it. Eros is also prominent in their synastry. I'm so cappy Knowflake . Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. I have more compassion for myself, and I feel validated some ~ not to identify more as a victim. It would simply be different. Eros in a synastry chart. Nessus conj the NN in the natal would be a person who would likely be abusive. I hope I can do this when I tell you about my own life. Hi Amiann, how do you think nessus square neptune would play out in synastry, lets say if its almost exact. I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. I would say that there must be wonderful soul connections that keep down the abuse that would come up without these. Hmm I think most people of the same time period would have it though, so it is not that big of a deal, I think. Ami, hello. It is like sky diving. I am looking to add 5 more aspects and would love your opinions! Could it be a past life meaning? To me, it always is. I have my DEJA conjuncion JUNO in my house 6 Come and post the charts. 9. DO they have Moon trine Moon or Moon conjunct Moon. Eros - Synni Signs Astrology There are no planets conjunct or square either Nessue or Dejanira in either chart, the only conjunction is her Dejanira to his Nessus. As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. Thank you =). Lilith and Ceres aspects in the Synastry Chart: How do you nurture each Please post the charts. Thank You so much for this info. Sexual Attraction | Cafe Astrology .com We also have mars opposite pluto (Im pluto) in synastry. I'm not typically the "make him suffer" type, but holy wow did it all come rushing out with him. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. My DEJA in home 6 in opposition to your NESUS in my house 12 to 10 degrees from my ascendant. And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! His nessus is in conjunction with his true node in geminis (in opposition to my uranus and my vesta). My Nessus square his Venus If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. I have 8 scorpio ascendant and he 4 scorpio jupiter. You do not have to do their chart. Since Aries is ruled by Mars, there's a . 12 degrees is WAY too much to be conj the ASC, my Friend. Also, how does moon conjunct pluto in synastry differ to moon conjunct pluto in composite. I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. You have such a sweet spirit. Our composite moon is at 26 Virgo and pluto at 0 libra. In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring, changing our lives in intense and lasting ways. I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. Also, there is no abuse either way. In this case Nessuus is retro in conjunction with the North node. There are millions of possible outcomes, and none should be claimed as the truth. If your Dejanira conjuncts his ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Another asteroid that is dark is Dejanira. Uranus is kink, so you do the math. The conjunction is especially strong, but the trine, square, and opposition can also indicate a past life connection or marriage. Well, we have a Sun (me) trine Pluto and a Pluto (me) conjunct his sun, Thank you so much for the reply and sorry for the late reply, Ive just seen it xx My moon is in Sagittarius and his in cancer, so that always worries me , He has pluto at 27 Virgo with my sun at 11 Virgo. Chiron conj the Sun is not sexy. Most Astrologers dont tell things straight like I do. Synastry Aspects for Soulmates - Ascendant Conjunct - Galactic Mystic Positive aspects speak to a generally happy marriage, but there is still karma to be worked out now. I was shocked to see it in this couples charts. Black Moon Lilith/Eros in Synastry - ProBoards It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. I am Sag with rising capricorn and he is Capricorn w/rising Sag. I am not asking you to do mine either. Where did you get these theories from? I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. Eros in synastry : r/astrology - reddit However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. . Hi Amiann Everyone should have one once in a lifetime, I suppose. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! Hi! The charts tell all. These parts of you would flow well i.e may not play out in actual asbuse but would still be issues you both would deal with i.e abuse/victimhood imo I have not seen the trine in actual charts, dean. YES, your Deja conj his NN will make you his victim, to put it really directly. Eros-Psyche: Eros and Psyche are natural mates. so what would it be? We have moons in conjunction in gemini; His venus and mars are in conjunction with my venus in Aquarius. As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. It creates a synastry energy where all the houses for the whole chart are conjunct to their opposite house in the partner's chart. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. I have BML in my 1st house in Scorpio along with Venus and Saturn All are in conjunction with BML. With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus.